Friday, October 23, 2020

Being Me !


 In life we hope for better and sometimes the worse comes , I grew up not having everything but I knew about working for what you want.

I thrive for years in trying to be me , having an impediment that made me felt like nothing , people mocked and tease me made me felt worthless and I lacked self esteem.

Now people asked "why were you treated that badly " the truth of the matter is , if I have found myself of course that won't matter if anyone understood me but life is not fair and it won't ever be fair !

At age 17 years , I found myself aiming for betterment yet still lacking the self esteem to move forward .

I worked in my late dad's garage , and I wanted to get out of home because of my mom behaviour towards me 

I worked in factories and eventually did courses . Reaching to levelling up ! I keep doing my best , I happen to have a miscommunication with my mom and that lead to having me out from my parents home to live with my boyfriend's parents ,something I didn't want happen , but it happened ...

I am so thankful I'm still with my Boyfriend now husband for 18years and forward !

No one will understand me however I'm motivated to becoming better , everything I have thought about it happened , I wanted to become a designer , be in real estate , a marketer , a mom , a wife ...it's amazing how you can ask for things and they come to reality .

Being a clefty has made me who I am today I fought great , from being in spiritual pains to physical pains however I have overcome !

Don't ever give up cause one day you will overcome , a next level will start but you will make it just as the first 

Keep moving forward !!

Till again !

Sarah Griffin.

Entrepreneur.

 

Tuesday, September 29, 2020


 

Cutie with a clefty

Some may wonder , what is a clefty?

A clefty is someone that was born with a cleft palate or clef lip , it affects your speech and sometimes left with a speech impediment !

Some asked " can you fix it ? "

Yes it can be fixed , however I did one operation and it open back , I was a baby and went through a major surgery to fix my palate , however it open as I grew older and I'm left with a hole at the roof of my mouth !

Do you have complications ? Yes I do , all the time , food stuff goes up there , if I drink too fast water can drown me , I can't wash my hair as any normal person but I get it done , I can't swim but I enjoy myself at the beach or river ! I learnt to love myself and love who I am !
My speech is a bit impaired but my business partners and my family understands me .
I take my time and talk so the words can be cleared ...
I'm grew to love me and I grew to overcome the hate the was inflicted on my life through people that bullied me and made fun of me , nevertheless I have many to live for as I heard the voice that spoke to me when I was about to kill myself !
I am now thankful and happy to be who I am today !!

Sarah G.

Thursday, September 24, 2020

Becareful of your company !!

TRIBUTE TO MY LATE DAD (RICHARD GRIFFIN)

Strong ��is the new beautiful

FAMILY!!

Stop the Abuse

Being abused in my childhood days

As a young girl growing up I have always wanted to have my business, always to become something, however, I had a lot of adversaries, because of my impediment, I was #abused verbally and emotionally, I wanted to kill myself, I just wanted to get rid of myself because my classmates, neighbors and some relatives made me felt worthless, I had pain and grudges for everyone and I just wanted to get rid of every single person
Today I am thankful for the voice that stopped me from killing myself and the voice that told me that I have many things to live for, although I wasn't someone that was in the the crowd, I always say I was different, always saw that I would become someone.